How do I tell my spouse about the divorce?
Just like you didn’t say “yes” to marriage on a whim no one decides to divorce lightly. It is often a process that has been contemplated for months if not years before the final decision to move forward with a divorce is expressed. Before telling your spouse about the divorce you should consult with an attorney to fully understand what divorce process options you have. This way when you tell your spouse you want a divorce you can also suggest the next steps or a possible divorce process for them to consider. It is good to know what options you have in advance. If you desire to stay out of court it is good to know what out-of-court options you have. Just like the court process - the various no-court or private divorce options each have pro’s and con’s that you will want to weigh in determining which process is right for you and your family.
Because every family is unique and deserves a divorce process tailored to meet their needs it is incredibly important that you fully understand the options you and your spouse have prior to “jumping into” a divorce process you may regret later.